I have three words for you: Big Wild Love! What is it? And why do you need it?
Author Jill Sherer Murray developed the concept of Big Wild Love to help women let go of what’s holding them back in order to obtain the life they want. For those stuck in a loveless marriage, bad relationship, or have given up on love completely.
In her book, Big Wild Love: The Unstoppable Power of Letting Go, Jill offers insights, wisdom, and practical guidance to help release what no longer serves you.
As Jill and I chat, you’ll soon realize that BWL is an exploration of the unstoppable power that comes with letting go of what holds us back.
In this episode
[03:07] What exactly is big wild love and how does it relate to letting go?
[07:26] “I’m talking about really loving and understanding ourselves with the intention of being able to let go of what’s not serving us”. – Jill Sherer Murray
[10:28] Jill shares about having an epiphany and how most people sleepwalk their way through them because they’re not ready to see the truth.
[15:28] Not being comfortable anymore with what is when entering another stage of your life.
[19:38] Seeing yourself in the category of other middle-aged women and choosing to embrace its gifts.
[21:17] Take the time to ask yourself why you are unhappy in the situation.
[25:19] Letting go is often about loss and needing to process that before you can even begin to decide what comes next.
[28:33] The problem with coming up with your healing process.
[33:18] The idea that all the people in your life will not travel with you the whole way.
[34:57] Jill Sherer Murray shares her Dare and Double Dare for this week.
❤️Your Dare for this week is to take a sheet of paper and draw a line down the middle. On the left, make a list: What do I have? And on the right: What do I want? Then, write down the “letgoable” that’s standing in the way of what you have and what you want.
About Jill Sherer Murray
Jill Sherer Murray lived in a dead-end relationship into her forties before finally letting it go.
She was like millions of women who struggle with whether to stay in a loveless marriage, a bad relationship or give up on dating altogether, believing love isn’t in the cards. You may be struggling with a similar decision yourself. Perhaps you’re terrified of being single, and yet you don’t truly feel you’re living the life you want.
With warmth and honesty, Murray shows you how letting go—of feeling stuck, afraid, and alone, and of believing what you’ve got is all you deserve—can free you from a life that isn’t serving you. She knows this is true because she did it herself—and ultimately attracted the love and life she wanted.
Through her story, other women’s stories, surprising facts and statistics, and helpful exercises, Big Wild Love will show you the way back to the self you’ve lost. It will put you on the path to change and teach you that, wherever you are, it’s never too late to start anew and find the Big Wild Love you deserve.
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